How to Play Fuck Marry Kill

Three archetypes. Three labels. No good answers. FMK is the party game that starts arguments and reveals what people actually value.

The Rules

1

See three archetypes

Each round shows you three dating archetypes or red flags. Every round is fixed once generated, so your choices are the challenge.

2

Assign each action once

You must use Fuck, Marry, and Kill exactly once. No doubles, no abstaining.

3

Lock it in

Once you've decided, hit "Lock In" to record your choice and move to the next round.

4

Defend your choices (optional but fun)

Playing with friends? Share your round and compare answers. Arguments encouraged.

Strategy Tips

  • Start with Kill. It's often easier to eliminate the worst option first, then decide between F and M.
  • Think long-term for Marry. Could you actually live with this archetype for decades? You think they will change? They won't.
  • Don't overthink Fuck. It's one night. Keep it simple. You won't see each other ever again.
  • Embrace the hard rounds. The toughest combinations usually create the best debates.

Game Variations

Speed Round

10 seconds per round. First instinct only.

Debate Mode

Each player must defend their Kill choice for 30 seconds.

Drinking Game

Take a drink every time you disagree with a friend's choice.

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